I cannot express how sorry I am for everyone that has to go through a divorce. I know firsthand how difficult it can get during the first few months when you are faced with your divorce. The only advice I can give, and that probably would sound hollow, is “hang in there”. I know that it feels empty, you doubt yourself. You are no sure how to continue on and you cannot imagine your life after the divorce, but know that it would get easier with time. Of course that you would still remember everything and your soul would still tighten with every mention of your spouse, but it would be easier and you would have other priorities in life.
Have you ever felt like your spouse is the only one that could really understand you? It happens quite often, you are close to him/her and no one else. But know that there is more to life that just that. People that are that close to their spouses have the hardest time adjusting to a divorce. Some cant stand it and they were the ones who initiated the divorce. Still being left is harder, no arguing with that.
There are a couple of things that you can do to make sure you get on top of your divorce. You must escape your emotional state and find a good cincinnati divorce lawyer. The legal work that comes with a divorce is difficult, confusing. Quite often people fool themselves that they know everything and dont need a lawyer, but a good Cincinnati divorce attorney can help in more ways than you think.
Of course if you have more serious emotional problems you might want to talk to a psychiatrist. Your cincinnati divorce attorney is only good at the legal stuff and he is not your shoulder to cry on. Hold your head up and know where to draw the line, dont look back, there is a wonderful time ahead after these dire times.